Friday, March 30, 2007

Maturity or Just Tempting?

The sky was incredible just before sunset one day earlier this week. Can you see the shafts of light piercing the clouds? I only had my phone camera to capture it, unfortunately, but it made me think about how the light is always shining...it's just our view of the clouds that makes it seem like things are dark.

In my reading in The Purpose-Driven Life this morning, the idea Rick Warren presented was that we should take temptation as a compliment. It means that we're maturing.

Hmm...an interesting thought. He was relating it to living a spiritual life, but I think it just might apply to everything.

Here's just one way I think of it: I've struggled with my weight since a pill changed my body's hormonal balance, but despite having grown older I've not matured in the management of my weight. I know what foods will contribute to staying overweight and which ones will assist in losing it. I'm still tempted by all kinds of food (this week it's Cadbury Caramel Eggs in particular) and haven't gained the maturity to resist temptation.

This has given me something to "chew" on for the weekend, and I hope that my level of maturity will increase by Monday so that I can begin to resist that temptation. :)

Have a great weekend. See you on Monday.

Thursday, March 29, 2007

It's Not Oh-ver

I woke up to 4" of snow on the ground today and more falling from the sky. Have you ever watched that late-night TV program called Da Vinci's Inquest? If you have, you get the title of this post. If not, at the end of the program, the main character, coroner Da Vinci, says "It's not Oh-ver" with his Canadian long "o" as the narrator tells how to find more online about the show.

Anyway. This will be an interesting day. My husband has an interview for a great job out of state, and although he's eager to sacrifice his career for mine this time around, it's still a possibility that could change our lives. Exciting.

Yesterday I read more of The Alchemist, and came across another interesting passage. That book has so many great parables for living a thoughtful life, and I'm sure I'll be sharing more of them as I continue to re-read this book.

Let me set this up for you. The boy in the book, who is a shepherd in Andalusia (Spain), meets an old man who tells him he is Melchizedek, King of Salem. The old man's purpose in the book is to intervene and put people on the right track again to pursue their treasure, or "personal legend."

The part of the story I'm about to share picks up just after the old man explains to the boy what a personal legend is.
They were both silent for a time, observing the plaza and the townspeople. It was the old man who spoke first.

"Why do you tend a flock of sheep?"

"Because I like to travel."

The old man pointed to a baker standing in his shop
window at one corner of the plaza. "When he was a child, that man wanted to travel, too. But he decided first to buy his bakery and put some money aside. When he's an old man, he's going to spend a month in Africa. He never realized that people are capable, at any time in their lives, of doing what they dream of."


"He should have decided to become a shepherd," the boy said.

"Well, he thought about that," the old man said. "But bakers are more important people than shepherds. Bakers have homes, while shepherds sleep out in the open. Parents would rather see their children marry bakers than shepherds."

The boy felt a pang in his heart, thinking about the merchant's daughter. There was surely a baker in her town.

The old man continued, "In the long run, what people think about shepherds and bakers becomes more important for them than their own Personal Legends."

It's such an easy trap, isn't it? To fall into a societal hierarchy mindset and choose importance over personal legend? I know I've succumbed to it several times, and yet, interestingly enough, the importance has never been sufficient to quell the yearning in my soul.

What's your Personal Legend? Have you, like me, forgotten it? Or maybe you're living it right now. I'd love to hear your legends and your thoughts about pursuing them.

In the meantime, happy Thursday to you, and here's to the last-ditch efforts of winter to rule the landscape.

Wednesday, March 28, 2007

Poem by Joy

Here's our first original contribution, from Joy in Minnesota.
First Winter Up-North

prairie-bred baker
left blizzard alley's
blender-whipped winds

found forest refuge
silent, magical
designed to delight

icing-covered twigs
frame my kitchen window
in fancy I see

powdered sugar pines
almond bark oaks
marshmallow shrubs

no winds swirling
straight from Montana
howling and cold

no eight-foot drifts
to tunnel through
instead I see

fence posts wearing
coconut-snow hats
applauding as

snowflake ballerinas
with diamond tiaras
dance clothesline ballet

What images does this poem conjure in your mind? Makes me a tiny bit sentimental for winter as we say hello to spring. Ok, only a really tiny bit, but still...how about you?

Tuesday, March 27, 2007

I was scanning my MyYahoo! page today and noticed today's B.C. comic. Wouldn't it be nice to have random-truth-dispensing boxes like that placed strategically throughout our lives?

Well, maybe it wouldn't be nice. I guess it depends on your viewpoint. I tend to think that it would be useful, especially for those times when several opportunities present themselvs and I'm not sure which one(s) to take advantage of. Sometimes I think this is how we think God should dispense advice to us, too. That, however, is a post for another day.

At any rate, this little comic made me chuckle, and hopefully it will put a smile on your face for at least a moment, too.

Enjoy your day.

Monday, March 26, 2007

A Revised Approach

Good Monday morning!

I've been thinking over the weekend about how to make this blog more interesting (aside from a more colorful layout), and one conclusion I reached is this: make it a space where anyone who reads can contribute something original, if s/he wants.

Then we could all notice and appreciate what each of us has to say. What do you think? If you want to contribute, just email your contribution to me, and I'll post it so that other readers can appreciate it (and share their comments about it).

In the spirit of getting it started, I thought I'd put in a couple of short pieces I wrote while my husband Tim and I were camping in Corpus Christi, Texas, last March.

Here goes.

Hot, Savory Soup!

The poster in the café entices with a warm image of a gourmet soup topped with delectable carrots, potatoes, and herbs.

The bowl is one of those pottery bowls like what you’d find in a Crate & Barrel store or Pier 1 Import store. The spoon looks substantial and is glows with a burnished silver highlight.

I think, “Man, that looks good right now.” Even though I’m not hungry and have just finished a slice of chocolate chunk cherry cheesecake, I think it’s appealing.

Maybe it’s because it’s cold in Texas today. I was cold all night long last night, and it rained too. This morning when I get out of bed at 10:15, I see that the computer is covered in a layer of silt. It’s nasty.

This place is so dirty! I’m beginning to wish that we hadn’t chosen to camp on this trip. Scratch that. I’m way past the beginning. I really wish we hadn’t chosen to camp. It sucks. Everything is dirty and full of Chase hair. We can’t stand up in any of the 3 domes of our tent because the air mattress is in the tallest one. The others just aren’t tall enough to stand up in anyway and I’m too claustrophobic to sleep on our gi-normous air mattress in one of the smaller domes.

The soup is really calling my name. I’m just wishing that I could be warm again. That’s funny, because I usually am always warm. Too warm. But I think that last night’s rain and cool temperatures overnight made me cold and I feel chilled to the bone, even now.

I’m wearing a long sleeved shirt and jeans, but I’m still cold. Weird.
Here's the second one.

I’m a sophomore in college. I’m standing behind the curtain on stage in Kerux Auditorium.

”Wish I could catch my breath,” I think.

I hear someone say my name and I’m really nervous now, but the curtain’s opening and I have to smile and walk out to the podium.

“Man, I hope I don’t fall or anything,” I think. “I hope I don’t look too fat or too much like a dork.”

I walk to the podium and look to my right. My friend Brenda is at the grand piano waiting for my signal. I nod, and she starts to play the introduction.

“Catch your breath! Or you’ll sound all shaky!” I think.

I open my mouth and start to sing. It’s pretty breathy, so I try to think about the words I’m singing and look at the students in the audience without getting distracted.

By the time it’s over, my voice has behaved. I walk back behind the curtain while some older people in the audience say “Amen” in monotone voices.

Later, while I’m walking to class, somebody stops me on the sidewalk and says how much they enjoyed my song. “You sing like a bird,” they say.

I think, “That’s not a compliment. Who wants to sound like a bird?” but I smile and say thank you before I walk away.


Well, that's my contribution for today. Dorothy among the Munchkins, I know you're a heck of a writer, and so are you, Joy.

Let the games begin!

Friday, March 23, 2007

Possibility of Dreams Coming True

I'm reading a couple of books these days, including re-reading The Alchemist. It's such a simple book, but elegantly full of great truths. If you haven't read it, or read it lately, may I recommend that you pick it up?

I've been dreaming a lot lately, and wondering if those dreams are possible. This section from the Paul Coelho's book stood out today.

The world was huge and inexhaustible; he had only to allow his sheep to set the route for a while, and he would discover other interesting things. The problem is that they don't even realize that they're walking a new road every day. They don't see that the fields are new and the seasons change. All they think about is food and water. Maybe we're all that way, the boy mused...It's the possibility of having a dream come true that makes life interesting, he thought...

I don't want to be like the sheep, merely concerned about eating and drinking (and all the other little mundane things of life that can consume us). It's so easy to think only about those things. But what I really want is to contemplate the possibilities of those dreams, and work to bring them to into the present.

So my encouragement for myself today is this: notice that the fields are new...notice that the seasons are changing...and realize that every day presents a new road to walk.

Enjoy your walk.

Thursday, March 22, 2007

When Candor Becomes Brutal

Have you ever done this? My husband is off work today, and I, of course, am working from home. He kept trying to make conversation with me and was getting our yellow lab all hyped up, and I snapped. All he was trying to do was be engaged with me and with our dog, but the (what felt like) constant interruption and the barking finally pushed me over the edge. I was candid, but I wasn't very nice.

My motives were good (candor), but my application was really poor. The result: I was brutal to the person I love the most.

Has this happened to you? Ever let your good intentions get run over by your frustration? It's not the first time I've been brutal, that's for sure, and probably won't be the last.

But here's the upshot of it. Fortunately, my husband forgave me, and we were able to kindly (and candidly) establish some parameters for what is both our home and my place of work.

Sometimes, though, we don't get the chance to seek that forgiveness and the brutality we exhibit turns into pain or bitterness for the person we unleashed it on. What do you do then?

I'd love to hear your thoughts. If you want to share, just hit the comments link and fire away. I'm really hoping we can get some good dialogue going, but the only way that will happen is if you talk back.

Talk to you tomorrow.

Wednesday, March 21, 2007

Starting Again

Welcome!

As you may know, my husband Tim and I kept a travel blog called Risking It All: Traveling while unemployed for several months during the past year. I have decided to shut down that blog (the archives are still online), and have been toying with ideas for a new blog.

So this is it. My goal is to share some informative, humorous, and thought-provoking ideas each day, and to encourage candid communication between you, my readers, and me.

Let's be candid...I'll take that as a real compliment.

See you tomorrow. :)